In general: The dream could be your setting to the partner or your sexuality. What can you contribute to it, so that her partnership becomes just as well like in the dream? Psychologically: An 'anonymous dream partner' is a symbolic shape for own, often unknown and unaware personality shares. A problem in your real partnership camouflages itself in a dream which shows a common appearance in very different presentation. E.G.: he in working clothes, they in the bathing suit - or they in evening gown and he in the jogger. Those and similar dream situations should point out to the fact that one wanted to 'overlook the fact in the first being in love that one does not fit in important points of a partnership and has basically absolutely contrary needs and life aims. One dreams of it if the first serious conflicts 'knock' to become soon the joyless main topic of this respect.